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    Teaching Self-Soothing: The ‘Drowsy But Awake’ Method, Explained

    Helping your baby learn to fall asleep independently? The “drowsy but awake” method might be your gentle next step.

    Published July 28, 2025
    Teaching Self-Soothing: The ‘Drowsy But Awake’ Method, Explained

    What Does “Drowsy But Awake” Mean?

    It means placing your baby into their crib when they’re sleepy, but not yet fully asleep.

    This gives them the opportunity to:

    • Notice they’re in a familiar, safe space
    • Settle with minimal help
    • Begin connecting sleep cycles without external soothing

    Why It’s a Game-Changer

    Not sure where to start? Discover your baby’s personalized plan.

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    Babies who always fall asleep in arms or while feeding often struggle to stay asleep when that environment changes. Teaching them to drift off independently builds sustainable sleep habits.

    How to Use It

    Start by:

    • Watching for sleepy cues (rubbing eyes, quieting down, zoning out)
    • Creating a consistent bedtime routine (bath, dim lights, lullaby)
    • Placing baby down gently when they’re relaxed—but still awake

    If they fuss:

    • Use soft touch, gentle voice, or shushing
    • Avoid overstimulation (no picking up unless really needed)
    • Repeat consistently over 3–5 nights

    When It Works Best

    This method is ideal from around 3–6 months and beyond. Earlier than that, babies often need more support to transition between stages of sleep.

    Final Thought

    “Drowsy but awake” is not a rule—it’s a gentle practice. With consistency and a calm presence, you can help your baby build the confidence to fall asleep on their own.

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